
I have been planning parties and weddings for sixteen years so you would think that not too many things guests do would surprise me. Yet it’s always a bit shocking the way some guests behave. Sometimes I think good manners are a thing of the past. As my grandmother always told me “Give everyone the same respect – from your waiter to the CEO”. If you follow these simple, common sense rules chances are your social calendar will be full.
How To Be a Gracious Guest
RSVP in a timely manner. If you are not sure whether you will be available or in town call your host and explain the conflict.
Let your host know of any serious dietary restrictions at least two weeks in advance – not on the morning of the party.
Arrive promptly – especially to a dinner party or an invitation that specifies “sharp”.
Never show up with uninvited guests.
Don’t drink so much that you will be embarrassed the next day.
Try to be sociable and meet new people. Never tell embarrassing stories about your host. Try to avoid controversial subjects.
Unless you are seriously allergic to something – eat it.
If the party is a casual affair, offer to help but never insist.
Do not complain that it’s too hot or too cold or the food is too salty… however if your host is a close friend and the problem can be remedied then by all means mention it.
Say goodbye to your host before you depart – even if you depart early.
Send flowers and a hand written thank you note the day after the party.
Stop For Sushi
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/in Wedding Planning /by Julie PryorAnthropologie is at it Again
/in Wedding Planning /by Julie PryorIt’s always a treat to visit Anthropologie because I never know what treasures I might find. In addition to fantastic clothes, I have bought wonderful items for nearly every room in my home. The Anthropologie at 211 south Beverly Drive in Beverly Hills has expanded their home decor department. Make sure to stop upstairs to see an expanded collection of rugs, bedding, wallpaper, curtains, lamps… You will find items that are not available at any of their other southern California locations.
Aren’t these fun! Their new spring dining collection has arrived. There are great dishes, pitchers, platters, vases etc.
Let Them Eat Cake
/in Wedding Planning /by Julie PryorThere is a hot new bakery in town. Kimberly Bailey recently launched “The Butter End Cakery” in Santa Monica. Kimberly creates magical CAKE using the finest natural ingredients. She uses cage free eggs, hormone free butter, organic milk , Nielsen-Massey Flavoring and Guittard chocolate. There is no fondant in sight – instead this creative genius uses rolled chocolate. Kimberly’s cakes look fantastic and taste absolutely incredible. View their fun site at http://thebutterend.com/
It’s Here
/in Wedding Planning /by Julie PryorBrunch at the Beach in Santa Barbara
/in Wedding Planning /by Julie PryorI typically expect a restaurant with an amazing view to serve mediocre food at best. The Boathouse at Hendry’s Beach is a pleasantly surprising exception. They care about everything they serve. I have enjoyed several wonderful meals at this extraordinary spot right on the beach. Sitting on their patio inches from the sand is a fantastic way to begin your day. Their weekend brunch is very good. Dinner here is delicious. They specialize in seafood and their fish is fresh and delicious. They feature locally sourced seafood as well as several types of fish flown in fresh from Hawaii. Their cioppino is very god as well as the chowder, and fresh salads. If you are not a fan of seafood there are meat and vegetarian options on the menu as well.
The unobstructed view from the table
They also own The Santa Barbara FisHouse and S.B. Shellfish Company on the pier. I never visit Santa Barbara without enjoing a meal at one or two of these restaurants. I wish we had something comparable in L. A.
Grace Ormonde Magazine Photo Shoot
/in Wedding Planning /by Julie PryorSeasonal & Delicious
/in Wedding Planning /by Julie PryorThe days are longer and summer is just around the corner – it’s time to eat lighter. The following dishes are easy to prepare, fresh and delicious. They are especially nice to serve at a party but easy enough to make for two.
Gracious Guests
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